The Proper Etiquette for Sending Funeral Flowers

It's important to follow etiquette rules when sending funeral flowers.

If a friend or associate has recently experienced a death in the family, you may want to send flowers to express your condolences. It's very important to follow proper etiquette in this situation in order to properly show your concern while being especially courteous during a difficult time.

Types

It is best to choose the arrangement based on the sentiment you want to convey and the size of the funeral service. For instance, a casket spray is often left to direct family members and should usually be avoided. Floral sprays, which are one-sided flower arrangements, are best for small services, as they don't take up much space.

Significance

Certain flowers can serve as symbols of comfort to a family during mourning, so it's best to choose from these blooms. For instance, a bouquet of forget-me-nots serves as a sign of remembrance and true love, and lilies of the valley signify the return of happiness.

Considerations

Consider presenting the bereaved family a gift other than or in addition to flowers based on the family's culture. For example, Jewish people don't often receive funeral flowers, since in the Jewish faith it is customary to bury the deceased within three days (food or fruit baskets are usually preferred). Funeral flowers also are not a cultural tradition for Hindus, but are welcome if you send them.

References

• Funeral Wise: Funeral Etiquette -- Sending Funeral Flowers