- The child's age and stage of development are critical considerations when selecting a gift. Many toys and products for children have appropriate ages marked right on the packaging. No matter how smart or advanced you think a baby or child is, it is wise to follow those guidelines. Guidelines for age appropriateness of toys and games are generally well researched and accurate. For babies and young children age appropriate toys, games and books are a good choice. Toy figures and dolls are also popular with young children. Consider the size of the item, any noise it might make and whether it is complicated to put together before making your purchase. If you are concerned about duplication, ask for a gift receipt. A gift receipt allows the recipient to return a gift but does not indicate the price on the receipt.
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For older children a video game, MP3 player or DVD of a favorite movie as well as games, books, craft supplies, clothes and whatever is "hot" among that age group is likely to well received. Older children also like sports equipment-soccer ball, tennis racquet, skateboard, roller blades or helmets, shin guards and other sports related gear. Older children also appreciate gift cards and movie tickets.
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Some children, especially those who are concerned about others who may not have as much as they do, like to have gifts that help make the world a better place. They may want to have money donated to a cause that is particularly meaningful to them. This could range from helping pets to donating seed for farming to giving money for medical research. You would need to know the child fairly well to be able to make an appropriate donation in his honor. When a child is likely to receive a great many gifts at the same time, such as at Christmas or for a Bar or Bat Mitzvah, giving gifts that honor the child can be especially meaningful.
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For grandparents, adult friends and relatives who enjoy a child's company, giving a child a gift of time together can be very rewarding for everyone involved. Spending a day at the zoo with a young child, or the spa or beauty salon with an older one, or taking a child shopping to select their own clothes or on an overnight excursion can create memories that will last a long time.
- For children, there is great joy in receiving. It is important, however, to remember that the joy of giving is something that children need to be taught. They can make or buy gifts for important people in their lives. Children also need to be taught the appropriate ways of acknowledging a gift.













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FrazzledNanny said
on 1/8/2009 I agree. Thanks for the article. 5*****