- Either the lady or the gentleman can ask someone to the prom. Whoever asks usually buys the tickets and starts making the arrangements. You can ask your date in a casual manner or set up an elaborate way of "popping the question." Think about your relationship and your intended date's personality to decide what's appropriate.
- A gentleman orders a corsage for his date, while a lady orders a boutonniere. The flower selection is usually based on coordinating with the colors that will be worn. Discuss what color your attire will be so you and your date can choose appropriate flowers.
- The couple can drive themselves or make arrangements for other transportation such as a limousine. This is usually shared with other friends to cut down the expenses. When you arrive to pick up your date, come to the front door and wait for her to come out. Honking or calling for her to come outside is not appropriate. Remember to be on time. Similarly, a lady shouldn't leave the gentleman waiting for a long time while she finishes getting ready.
- The gentleman usually makes arrangements for dinner. Make reservations ahead of time, or choose a place where you won't have to wait too long so as not to be late to the prom. During the meal, remember to follow proper etiquette, such as placing a napkin on one's lap and not chewing with an open mouth.
- The person who extends the invitation usually buys the tickets to the prom, but other arrangements are acceptable, such as when two friends purchase their own tickets. Discuss transportation and dinner costs with your date. Some couples like to split the costs, but it is perfectly acceptable for one person to cover the expenses. Photos are generally bought by the person who purchased the tickets unless he or she is also covering the cost of transportation and dinner; then it is a nice gesture for the other person to cover the cost of photographs. Expect to pay for your own attire, grooming expenses, and the flower for your date.
