A wedding proposal doesn't necessarily have to be grandiose or expensive to be heartfelt and memorable. The best marriage proposal is one that comes from the heart and reflects your knowledge of your intended's personality and expectations. For example, one woman might recoil in horror if you ask her father for her hand in marriage, while another might be moved to tears by your understanding of her family values. Make your proposal into a personal declaration of love that your beloved will remember forever.
The Classic Proposal
For a classic marriage proposal, you would select a romantic setting and ask your intended to marry you on bended knee with an engagement-ring box in your hand. Although this is a classic move, there is plenty of room for variation. For example, in choosing the setting, consider what would be romantic to her. Does she love the beach, the mountains or a glittery night on the town? Or would she prefer a home-cooked meal? A proposal can also take place somewhere that is special just for the two of you--perhaps the place where you first met, had your first date or spent one of the happiest days of your relationship so far. Consider also whether or not to actually get down on bended knee--would she would fall over laughing or would she consider it sweet? Finally, think about how you want to phrase the actual proposal. You might want to keep it short and sweet with a simple "Will you marry me?" or you might want to read a romantic poem or give a little speech about how much you love her and why you want to spend the rest of your life with her.
The Written Proposal
Surprise your intended by proposing in writing in an unexpected place. Again, you can make it very personal by proposing in a way that shows you know her well. If she is a beach lover, write it in the sand with a stick. If she's a ski bunny, write it in the snow. If you've passed many hours together playing Scrabble, spell it out on the game board. If she's a bookworm, write a love poem asking for her hand and put it in the book she's currently reading in place of her bookmark. If she loves pancakes, form the words "Marry Me" with pancake batter, cook them, arrange them on her plate and serve to her with a rose and the ring.
The Third-Party Proposal
You may arrange to have the question popped via the electronic scoreboard at her favorite sporting event. (However, be absolutely, unequivocally certain that something like this would appeal to her--and that she will say yes.) You could also arrange to have a radio station play "your" song at an agreed-upon time and then have the DJ pop the question. If she has a beloved pet, you can get Fido involved by attaching the ring and a written proposal to the dog's collar and having him bring the proposal to her.
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