Gifts for Mothers on the Wedding Day

Although mothers typically hold a special place of honor on the wedding day of their children, it is not required to give them a gift on that day. Thank you gifts are traditionally given at the rehearsal dinner, if there is one, or after the return from the honeymoon. Still, the couple may wish to show their love by choosing a thoughtful gift for their mothers on the wedding day.

Frugal and Sentimental

Since weddings are already emotion-filled occasions, it is a good time to reflect on your childhood as you consider just the right "thank you" for the woman who raised you and cared for you. One of the most simple and inexpensive gifts is a photo frame filled with cherished pictures and drawings. A dual frame with a picture of you as a child with your mom and one of you with your mom on your wedding day is sure to bring tears of joy to her eyes. Another option is a photo combined with a heart-felt poem or a drawing from your childhood.

If your mother is a bookworm, seek out a first edition from her favorite author or a book of poems. If she loves music, create a mix CD of music you enjoyed together or songs that represent favorite family memories.

Pampered and Polished

Planning a wedding is a lot of work. While the couple leaves for their honeymoon, many moms are left feeling sad, tired and let-down. Leave your mom with a post-wedding pick-me-up, such as a day at the spa (better still, include a friend), hair appointment or shopping spree. If your mom is more into culture than couture, give her tickets to a theater event, concert or museum exhibit opening. It is not a traditional gift, but your mom will appreciate your thoughtfulness as she unwinds from the big day.

Big and Bold

If your wedding budget has some wiggle room, you can go a bit bigger with your thank you gift. Jewelry may be the perfect gift, but make sure it has a special meaning to your mom. A locket with cherished pictures or a ring or necklace that can be updated is a wonderful choice. These leave room for customization upon the arrival of grandchildren, making them gifts that keep on giving. Look for stacking rings or necklaces if this idea appeals to you.

And, for the woman who has it all, how about a weekend getaway? From a bed and breakfast by the sea to a trip through wine country, your mom will be surprised and thrilled to have her own mini honeymoon with your dad or a girls' weekend with a friend. It is a nice way to get her mind off of losing her child and to help her relax after the whirlwind of wedding planning.

Conclusion

Whatever gift you plan for your mom, do not forget to tell her you love her and to thank her for her help. For most moms, those little things are really the most valuable.