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Summary: A long-distance relationship must feature a lot of communication from both parties, such as phone calls, letters and gifts, in order to work. Receive guidance for maintaining a long-distance relationship from a relationship author and talk show host in this free video on relationships.
Dr. Paul Vehorn has a Ph.D and did graduate work in behavior psychology. He has also been a nationwide talk show host on the Sun Radio Network. Dr. Vehorn wrote "Dynamic Dating" and...read more
"He doesn't call. He doesn't write. How do you determine if a long distance relationship is working? This is Dr. Paul, author of Boomer Girls, A Boomer Woman's Guide to Men and Dating, relationship consultant. I hear repeatedly, from people who say, he doesn't call, or she doesn't call. He doesn't write, she doesn't write, and guess what ? That may be a clue that, that long distance relationship is not working, ok? You don't have to be hit in the head with a baseball bat, to figure that out. Long distance relationships are tenuous at best. If you want that long distance relationship to be successful, then you need to call. You need to message. You need to write. You need to send gifts. You need to send a gift certificate for a restaurant. You need to send a piece of, I heard one that some caller said, that I thought was delightful.Her boyfriend sent a pizza to her, every Friday night, and they talked on the phone, and he had a pizza sent to him, and they sat on the phone, and had pizza together. Now, I thought that was rather romantic. You think what you may, but it just so happened, that on Friday nights together, they would always have pizza, so that was a carryover of a tradition they had. Let information like that kind of guide you through, the various things that you want to have happen, in your long distance relationship. Keep it happening. This is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today, be your realities of tomorrow."
eHow Article: How to Determine Whether Your Long-Distance Relationship Is Working
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miseli said
on 8/12/2009 this heled me in my long distance relation. thanks.