Dealing With a Bad Divorce

Video Transcript

"Yes, life does have its traumatic climaxes. Dealing with a bad divorce. This is Dr. Paul, author of Boomer Girls, A Boomer Womens Guide to Men and Dating, and host of, Ask Dr. Paul. I have had so may callers tell me about their, " bad divorce". It's unbelievable, hiding money, having attorneys fees, getting private investigators, it goes on and on. And my recommendation to either one of both parties is this, the divorce is on, there's no changing it, there's no looking back, if you are in a position where you are feeling depressed, you must get professional help, don't avoid it, it becomes very, very depressing when you sit in a situation that may or may not have anything to do with you having started it, and you're the victim, because there's always the victim, actually there are two victims in a divorce, but one victim believes that they're more the victim than the other, you need professional help. Please get it, because you may find yourself on the depression end of the stick, and you don't want to be there, that's not worth it, and then you're going to go through a lot of medical work. So get counseling up front, try to avoid being vindictive in a divorce, that's the worst that can happen, let the attorney handle it and go clean. Often times that small item becomes that huge issue in any type of difficult divorce, so avoid that. This is Dr. Paul, may your fantasies of today, become your realities of tomorrow."