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Summary: A potentially violent partner can be spotted by their inability to use words to communicate, choosing instead to use actions or violence. Identify violent traits developed in childhood, often due to poor upbringing, with information from a family therapist in this free video on marriage and relationships.
Patti German, M.Ed., LMFT, is a clinical member of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. Her experience includes a Master of Education at Temple University in...read more
"Hi, I'm Patti German, and I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist here in New York City. In this clip, we are going to talk about how to spot a potentially violent partner. I think the most important thing to understand in violence, is a person loses his ability to use words to communicate and can only communicate through behaviors. Violence is something that one learns through a family of origin. Having witnessed it, or never having been listened to and heard. So, if you see your partner kicking things or being mean to animals or something along these lines, there is an indication of violence in this sense. So, to be able to sit and talk with your partner about what might be underneath the anger is what can help defray violence behaviors. And violence is about, again, an inability to communicate; to put your feelings into words. This is Patty German in New York City."
eHow Article: How to Spot a Potentially Violent Partner