How to Confront a Cheating Husband

Video Transcript

"Hello, my name is Reka Morvay and I'm going to talk to you about how to confront a cheating husband. Now, this is one of the saddest situations I think that can occur in a marriage. When there is such a great loss of trust that you feel that you have to confront your husband about having cheated on you. Because it is such a difficult situation, I really don't think there is any one good way to do it. However, I would advise that you be clear, and confront your husband directly about the situation. Tell him how you feel. Tell him how you came to this conclusion; why you think that he has cheated on you. And before you even talk to him, talk to yourself about what this means. What kind of solutions can you see out of this situation. Ask him what kind of solutions he feels that there are out of this situation. Another question to ask is why. Naturally, I think this will be on everybody's mind, why this situation has come about? Maybe it has reasons that can be fixed. Maybe it has root causes in the relationship that need to be addressed. It might also be a good idea to seek counseling, to seek therapy so that the two of you can talk to each other calmly. Because I think in this situation, it will be very, very difficult to remain calm and loving with your partner."