How to Understand Guys

Video Transcript

"Mens magazines are visual ladies books, romance novels, are print. Hello, how to understand guys. This is Doctor Paul, author of "Boomer Girls, a boomer womens guide to men and dating", and host of "Ask Doctor Paul". Men are visual, if you want to understand guys, understand that they are visual. That means that if you want to sit down and chat with them it's a good idea, often times, and I've seen women do this, effectively, in fact, I've had women call my show and say "one of the best techniques that I've ever had is to sit down in a club with a napkin and write on it and they get the picture and sometimes they don't get it if I don't do that". In a situation where it may be an office or you want to better understand the guy, have them write something down and you write something down, they're visual. They see things and that's the difference between men and women. If you really want to understand them, get them involved in the writing process, the visualization process, you be there with them and there is where you're understanding begins, it's all visual. This is Doctor Paul, may your fantasies of todays be your realities of tomorrow."