How to Talk to Girls

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"Jeff Donom is a ventriloquist. The question for you though is how to talk to girls? This is Dr. Paul author of "Boomer Girls, a Boomer Woman's Guide to Men and Dating" and host of "Ask Dr. Paul". Well you're not a ventriloquist and you may not be as witty as Jeff but you can talk to girls by listening. Just remember God gave you one mouth and two ears. Ask open ended questions, how, who what, why, and when. Ask for example how did you ever get that interesting looking briefcase? She has a briefcase you may ask her about that. There always is something there that is more outstanding than anything else. If it is a question you have about something she is wearing, if you are opening a question by seeing her for the first time and you are opening a conversation in an elevator let's say. By the way I've seen here here every day and I was just curious what firm do you work for? Just ask open ended questions and how do you like it there? If you ask a question that is going to get a yes or no answer, you're doomed, don't even think about it because it isn't going to work. People want to talk about the most important things in their lives themselves. People worry about what other people think of them, they will think about you for 30 seconds and from that point on they are going to let you know about themselves. So critically important is to ask that open ended question, that is how you talk to girls. This is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow."