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Summary: To keep a relationship alive, consider trying new things and refrain from doing the same things over and over. Keep a relationship alive with tips from an author of a book on dating in this free video on interpersonal relationships.
Dr. Paul Vehorn has a Ph.D and did graduate work in behavior psychology. He has also been a nationwide talk show host on the Sun Radio Network. Dr. Vehorn wrote "Dynamic Dating" and...read more
"Artificial respiration works when you're involved with someone who needs to be revived. But how do you keep a relationship alive? This is Dr. Paul, author of "Boomer Girls," A Boomer Woman's Guide to Men and Dating. If your relationship needs artificial respiration, it's over. How do you keep that relationship alive? And that's the key. How do you keep it dynamic? How do you keep it continuing to be interesting? First of all, you need to be interested in each other. Genuinely, actually interested in each other, in the things you do, the things you do together. Don't let it bog down into boring by doing the same thing over and over. You know the definition of mental illness: doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. So, don't let it bog down. If you want to keep that relationship alive, don't simply lock into going to the same restaurants, the same movies, the same activities, the same friends, the family. Go by yourselves elsewhere. We all know what to do. We go to a hotel for the weekend, we go on a trip over the weekend, we may go on a cruise. Anything that happens to make us more interesting to the other and have our relationship more interesting. And by the way, it helps to be more interesting to yourself too. That's what it's all about. This is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow."
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mrmarriage said
on 11/22/2009 Dr. Paul, thanks for the video clip. How are the videos doing for you. Do they bring you much traffic? I will rate your clips, and sign on as a friend. Do the same if you like. Brett Mr. Marriage