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Summary: Save a relationship by examining where you've been, where you are and where you think the relationship is going. Learn to save a relationship with tips from an author of a book on dating in this free video on interpersonal relationships.
Dr. Paul Vehorn has a Ph.D and did graduate work in behavior psychology. He has also been a nationwide talk show host on the Sun Radio Network. Dr. Vehorn wrote "Dynamic Dating" and...read more
"We all need a saving grace, but how do you save your relationship? This is Dr. Paul, author of "Boomer Girls," A Boomer Woman's Guide to Men and Dating. Sometimes we say that everyone deserves a second chance. Maybe, maybe not. But if that relationship was good in the first place, it may deserve, that relationship, a second chance and how do you save that. When you look at what you have and you ask yourself, "where've we been, where are we now and where are we going?" then you can answer if that relationship is worth saving. If something is not worth saving, then close the door. But if it is, and only you can determine that in a relationship that you're in, not just one person but both of you. Both of you have to have a meeting of the minds, is this relationship worth saving? My bet is that it is worth saving because it worked in the first place. There was a song once about a man who left his girlfriend, and he put an ad in the paper and he wanted somebody. He wanted to walk down the beach and do the various things, and of course, who'd he find, but the same woman he had before. So a lot of times, we go right back to where we were. Why bother? Save what you have. Make it happen and your life will be much happier and certainly less complicated. This is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow."
eHow Article: How to Save Your Relationship