How to Initiate a First Kiss

Video Transcript

"Hi, my name is Jessica Claire, and I'm a dating coach for New York Dating Coach, and we're here in New York City. In this clip we're going to talk about, how to initiate a first kiss. Now I hear from clients all the time, that this is the most difficult thing, they just never know when a woman is ready for them to move in for the kill. If you're lucky, a woman might do it for you, but most likely, you're going to have to decide when the time is appropriate. So here are a few tips to help you know when the time is right. First of all, a first kiss should happen within the first three days. It can happen on the first date, it can happen on the second date, or on the third date. I would say, anytime after the third date, and you've probably missed many ample opportunities to kiss her, most likely making her feel unattractive. There's just as much pressure to do it, to wait long enough, as there is to have waited too long. The best time to kiss a woman for the first time, is a time you really think that she looks beautiful, whether she's sitting, smiling, the wind is blowing just right. Usually you can feel it in your gut when you really want to kiss a woman. Now the best way to do that, to touch her somewhere else first, whether it be her knee, or her shoulder, or her neck, to clarify that you're moving in for contact, you don't just want to move in with the kiss or you might scare her off. So, with a little touch here, a little touch there, then eye contact, you have to look a woman in the eye. Once you touched her, and you looked her in the eye, smile, she's probably going to be aware of your next move. This is Jessica Claire with New York Dating Coach, and this has been, how to initiate a first kiss."