How to Cure Yourself of Nice-Guy Syndrome

Video Transcript

"Hi, my name is Jessica Claire, and I'm a dating coach for New York Dating Coach, and we're here in New York City. In this clip we're going to talk about, how to cure yourself of "nice guy" syndrome. Now this is a problem most of my clients have, they're too nice, the girls is always asking them to do things for them, they end up becoming the best friend, she cries on their shoulder, and then somehow in the end, they don't win her heart as a result. So, there's only one way to cure nice guy syndrome, and that is to value your own time and have a sense of self worth. If a girl calls you and is crying, you're more than welcome to help her, be nice to her. You should never be a jerk, the jerk doesn't always get the girl. However, a man who uses his time wisely, decides what he wants and goes for it, will always seem more confident and attractive to a woman. If you're at a restaurant and you're on a date, this is an example, and she doesn't like mussels and you do, don't be a pushover, have the mussels. If you want to do something specific on Saturday, and she's too busy, do it on your own. You're the person in charge of yourself, and the more you care about yourself, the more likely others are going to care about you."