How to Fall in Love

Video Transcript

"A falling can be a dangerous enterprise and falling in love can be even more dangerous. This is Dr. Paul, author of Boomer Girls a woman's guide for men and dating. And this is for men and woman both. Falling in love. Falling out of an airplane. Falling out of the building, it's still falling. Let's take a look at what we don't want to do. First of all we want to fall in love with our selves. We're not looking to the other to be our prop or our crutch. We have to love ourselves before we can love the other. That's the bottom line. And if you're falling in love and you feel that you're falling in love what you're telling yourself is I except me for what I am and I believe this other person excepts themselves for what they are. Be it man or woman we all want to be in love. The basis of all human interaction is to love and be loved. Whether it's the love of a parent and a child or that romantic love between a man and a woman, that's important. It's a part of our life. It develops those, that serotonin and those pheromones in our minds, in our, in our brains and we love it. It, it, it makes us happy. It makes us go. It makes, gives us that joy in life. So before you fall in love remember one thing. Love by itself first. This is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow."