How to Get a Crush to Notice You

Video Transcript

"There is nothing sadder than a crushed roles. That's one of the poet said. This is Dr. Paul, author of Boomer Girls, a boomer women's guide to men and dating. "How to get a crush to notice you"? You have a crush on someone and you want them to notice you, but you want to avoid being that crushed roles, don't you? So what do we do? We try to make it evident to them that we're interested. They may already know that. Certainly it's nice to have their email, it's nice to have the cellphone number, but you need to be a little more subtle, don't you? The best way is to bring in that wing man or wing woman. If you're a woman and you know a guy, let that guy approach the other man and say, "look, this friend of mine, cousin, whatever, has kind of an interest in you, okay". And the guy may not know it. Remember guys are very visual ladies, and I know, I hear you, you say, "dah", well yeah "dah", okay, but, sometimes they just have to be told straight on. On the other hand, the woman; you have a crush on this woman and she doesn't know your alive guys. Again, use that wing man, that woman that you know who is your platonic friend to go over and say, "hey look, he's a pretty good guy". That gives you an endorsement. And women feel a little insecure but if another woman tells them, "oh, he's really a great guy. I think you might like to talk to him". Boom. Don't freak. That's the bottom line. So make sure that you have that wing man or that wing woman, that wing person, they can work with you. And of course, you can do the favor for them as well. This is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today, be your realities of tomorrow."