How to Go About Finding Mr. Right

Video Transcript

"Never casts your pearls before swine. You can't make a silk purse out of a sow's ear and be careful what you'll settle for you may get it. How you go about finding Mr. Right? This is Dr. Paul, author of Boomer Girls, a boomer women's guide to men and dating. Ladies, those three items come in first. Finding Mr. Right means you need to define what you want. Do not shave the corners. Be careful what you'll settle for you may get it and later find something that you really want. So getting Mr. Right means having a clear focus of what you want. You're not a butterfly, fleeting from rose to rose. You're looking for someone who is in fact, "Mr. Right". And that's not an easy task, but it can be made a lot easier if you try to not to change someone. Or he's good in these areas, but I can change this. You will not change anyone. I can tell you from behavioral psychology that we can modify people's behavior, but we cannot change them. They are what they are. You're in from famous words of Popeye, "I am what I am", Popeye the sailor man. And believe me people are what they are. So that's no. 1, you cannot change the person. So you can't make a silk purse out of a sow's ear. If someone's really beneath, the class that you have or are, you cannot cast your pearls before swine. They won't appreciate it anyway. Okay. So those three items help you in determining how to find Mr. Right. No one can give you a formula. But they can give you some guidelines and those guidelines can come from you as well, because only you know what makes you feel good and again, depend on that inner sixth sense. This is Dr. Paul, may your fantasies of today, be your realities of tomorrow."