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Summary: Getting a man to notice you involves subtleties like eye contact, slight smiles and a good first impression. Get noticed in a positive light by a man with tips from a relationship specialist in this free video on dating.
Dr. Paul Vehorn has a Ph.D and did graduate work in behavior psychology. He has also been a nationwide talk show host on the Sun Radio Network. Dr. Vehorn wrote "Dynamic Dating" and...read more
"The good, the bad, and the ugly. How to get a man to notice you. This is Dr. Paul, author of Boomer Girls, a Boomer Woman's Guide to Men & Dating. Ladies, don't be a drama queen, okay? You may be noticed, but in an ugly way, so when you are looking to have a man notice you be a little more subtle; otherwise, you may look like a character; you may look like you're bipolar. It may cause you some serious, serious problems. So think about the good way, the bad way, and the ugly way. So don't go ugly, and don't go bad; go good. Go with what you feel is of interest to the man in that category. Is he a businessman? Is he a a laborer? Is he a physician? Is he a mechanic? What does he do that might be of interest? Does he like fishing? Do something that will make him notice you within the framework of where he's coming from. That's the key. Everybody can make someone notice them. I mean, a bank robber does that, don't they? But obviously, in a bad or ugly way. In your case, you want to make certain that somebody notices you, and I say again, eye contact is critical. And the way in which you respond is also critical. A smile that's a slight smile, not an over smile. A look that's a subtle look, not an oh, and do it again, and again until he finally responds. That's how it is. It's not being redundant. It's being tenacious. There's a difference. Eventually, I know; he'll get the picture. I realize what you say ladies. Well, he doesn't get it. Yeah, he gets it ultimately, eventually, okay? So trust me on that one. All right, so just remember the good, the bad, and the ugly, and just recall yourself as the lady, and the class act that you are. This is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow."