How to Attract a Man

Video Transcript

"The question becomes what kind of man do I want to attract? And more importantly, how do I attract a man? This is Dr. Paul, author of Boomer Girls and I have a suggestion for you. The hundreds and thousands of women that have called my show have asked me that repeatedly. Number one, and again, its very simple, be yourself. Don't be concerned with the fads. There was a time long ago when bright green was in fashion. Bright green may not fit your body tone, it may not fit your eyes, it may not fit you as a personality. So don't try to attract a man by having the same type of costume because the world's a stage and we're all but actors, and we are all are wearing costumes. Don't think that every man is attracted to the same thing. Looking at him is a good way and glancing away again. Looking at him again and glancing away is a good way. He'll notice that you're noticing and the key to that is be subtle. Most men need something in writing. Now obviously you can't do that. Sending a man a drink is not the way, but if you want to attract him, make certain that you bring eye contact in and then you let it go. And bring it in again and let it go. He'll get the clue. He understands. You look attractive, you don't look cheap and try to make certain that you're within eye distance of him. I mean if you're looking at the back of his head, that's not going to work, is it? So trying to attract a man is critically important in your need to make an impression and the way that you do that is through eye contact. This is Dr. Paul, may your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow."