How to Make Relationships Great

Video Transcript

"Greatness lies within, not without. How to Make Relationships Great. This is Dr. Paul, author of "Boomer Girls: a Boomer Woman's Guide to Men and Dating", and host of Ask Dr. Paul. Greatness, as I said, lies within. In order to make a relationship great, you must be great. You must look to yourself. Because guess what's going to happen? The other, that significant other, is going to suddenly do what you do. It's going to be like the saying that imitation is the highest form of flattery. If you want a great relationship, then you must be great and the other will follow suit. In every relationship, one person is somewhat the leader and the other person is somewhat the follower. And at some times, it changes roles, because of the dynamics of the difference that the role asks for. But in order to make that relationship great, truly great, the greatness has to come from within the individuals, and at some times, one person may have that pick up and the other picks up at another time. And that's how it needs to be done, because that keeps that relationship great, exciting, and spontaneous. This is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow."