How to Make a Man Fall in Love With You

Video Transcript

"The mood is the thing. How to make a man fall in love with you. Ambiance, um. This is Dr. Paul author of Boomer Girls, a Boomer Woman's Guide to Men and Dating and host of Ask Dr. Paul. Setting the mood is so critically important in making a man fall in love with you. I can not express it enough. Cleopatra did it with Mark Antony. OK? That is how classic having a man fall in love with you can be. She set the mood. Do you know that in Napoleonic France, Josephine actually had the drapes of the castle inside changed to match her dress that she was meeting Napoleon in. Setting the mood. The candle light, look at the candles, you see I'm setting the mood. OK. Look at this, look at this, the couch, the whole ambiance is important, it's critical. So, that's a part of it. You are the mood. You are the one the man is falling in love with. And he's falling in love with the totality of you. Where you are, who you are, how you are. Look, the world's a stage and we're all bit actors, right? And that's how we establish that perception of that man falling in love with you. You are the one that's wearing the makeup, you're the one with the dress. You're the one that has all of the aces. Use them. This is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow."