How to Get That Very First Kiss

Video Transcript

"Hi, I'm Donna Barnes. I'm a life and relationship coach, and owner of NYDatingCoach in New York City. In this clip, we'll talk about how to get that first kiss. Well, if you're the guy, work with her body language a little bit. Lean into her, keep eye contact with her and see if she's receptive to that. If she's pulling back and she's not kind of getting that vibe, don't try to kiss her. Try to hold her hand first and see if she'll be receptive to that. But most ladies will really let you know if they want you to kiss them. They'll just give you that energy. They'll look at you, they'll laugh at your jokes, they'll touch your arm. And that's a sign that they really want you to kiss them. You might as well give them what they want. And for a lady, if you want the guy to kiss you, you just heard that. That is what you have to do. You have to smile and flirt and touch his arm and just let him know that you're very attracted to him and he'll get the message, he'll lean in for that kiss. Ladies, there's all sorts of things you can do. You can kind of lick your lips and look sultry, and don't talk too much. If you get talking too much then he's trying to figure out, how do I get her to shut up so that I can kiss her. So, make sure you take pauses in the conversation and give a little bit of time for him to be able to lean in and kiss you. This is Donna Barnes, life and dating coach in New York City."