How to Ask Someone to Be Your Girlfriend

Video Transcript

"No one wants to go through life alone and today we're going to be talking about how to find a girlfriend. Find that perfect girlfriend. Hi, I am Joe Cuenco and I'm with Family Resources. You know dating has actually changed quite a bit in the 21st century. It's not uncommon for people to be actually try a very direct approach. Ask somebody for their phone number. Ask somebody for their e-mail. Text them you know that's another way to get their attention. But basically what you want to do is start the ball rolling. You can use different styles the less or more indirect approach. Would be possibly to go out with a group of coworkers. Go out with a group of friends to a baseball game. To a bowling alley to a play. Find what ever your common interests are and basically use that. As something that you set common ground and begin your conversations. To get deeper and build your friendship from there. You can try some unique ways. I actually saw a gentleman walk up to a table right next to me and said to the group of ladies there. Can I use your menu? Well obviously he had a menu at his table and what he wanted to do was get an opportunity to introduce himself and get a little attention. So the thing about is that you've got to talk a little bit of aggression. If you want to make that first step. You've got to show some caricature some personalty and show that your a little bit different because there's a lot of guys out there. Trying to vying for females attention. The thing about it is you need to remember that. If you don't take the opportunity it's going to be lost. If you don't ask somebody to dance. You'll never be on the dance floor. So and that is how to start to find the girlfriend and the perfect girlfriend. I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources. Relationships for life."