How to Catch a Cheating Boyfriend

Video Transcript

"We're fine tuning our relationships and how to be a private eye, specifically how to catch a cheating boyfriend. I'm Joe Cuenco, I'm with family resources and today we're going to be talking about just how do you catch that cheating boyfriend. First of all, if you suspect something, probably your intuition is probably right. After you spend a good bit of time with somebody and you suspect that he or she is cheating, in this case he, you're probably right. But, how do you actually go and actually produce evidence and catch this person? Well, you're probably going to have to go to some extremes. You may be monitoring his emails, you may be monitoring his texts, his phone calls, his phone records, watching where he goes, who he's with at what time. If you want to go to a real extreme there are many electronic surveillance options available to you. GPS; you can track where his car is at any point in time. But, realistically why would you want to do that? It's not a situation, this is your boyfriend it's not your husband. If it's your husband you may be considering a divorce option where a lawyer will tell you 'why would you want to live this way looking over your shoulder'. So, if it's a boyfriend, really examine your position and why you want to put up with a cheating boyfriend. But, if you have to track him down, do that. You may just want to confront him and say 'How are we doing? What's happening here? I had this intuition.' and go from there. There are extremes you can go through, communication is key, and also recognize that relationships are finite. They have beginnings and they have ends, and sometimes it's better to be with somebody else. Somebody who's going to treat you right where you don't have to worry. It's much better at the end of the day to be happy, worry free then be with somebody that you're going to have to be looking over your shoulder and wondering who and with they are at all times. Let them be somebody else's problem. That's how you catch a cheating boyfriend. I'm Joe Cuenco with family resources, relationships for life."