What Makes Someone Attracted to You?

Video Transcript

"Hi, this is Jessica Claire with New York Dating Coach in New York City. In this clip, we're going to talk about what makes someone attracted to you. People become attracted to someone for many, many different reasons. First, it's the initial look of someone. It's the first thing we almost always notice. Is she tall, is he short, etc. I love his hair, whatever. That's the initial stage of attraction. The first thing that you say and the way you speak is the second stage -- the tone of your voice, the quality of your movements. So it's still a physical thing, but it's the second stage of the attraction process. Then finally, someone becomes attracted to your personality. This is the strongest and most important aspect of attraction. If someone is very physically attracted to you, they love the way you are in groups and the way you talk and the way you act, fine. But if they can't match you and your personality to something they're attracted to, it will never, ever last. So have a strong personality, and you'll probably meet your mate. This is Jessica Claire with New York Dating Coach."