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Summary: In order to say "no" to being a bridesmaid at a wedding, be respectful, express gratitude at being asked and then be honest about your reasons for not wanting to participate. Explain to a bride that you cannot afford to be a bridesmaid or that you do not like being in the spotlight with help from a relationship coach in this free video on weddings.
Donna Barnes is a professional life coach, relationship expert, television host, columnist and producer, as well as the author of "It's All About You." Barnes has been attracting a lot...read more
"Hi, I'm Donna Barnes, I'm a life and dating coach and owner of NY Dating Coach here in New York City. In this clip we'll talk about how to say no to being a bridesmaid. Now, I don't know if you've ever been a bridesmaid before but it can really be expensive. You've got to buy the dress, you've got to buy shoes, you've got to be there and supportive and just - and if you really are in a bad financial situation and you can't afford it, then I'd say be honest. If your friend asks you let them know how honored you are and how you know, you're so glad to have felt like they wanted to include you in it. Decline in a very respectful, honest way and just say unfortunately I really - I can't afford this right now. It's really not in my budget. I can't afford to buy the dress. There's a chance that they might be able to help you with that if then you'd like to be part of the wedding anyway. If it's a not financial reason that you just really don't like being the center of attention and you don't want to be part of this then share that too. Whatever your reason is, just be honest and be grateful that they asked you in the first place and be friendly about it. This is Donna Barnes from New York City."
eHow Article: How to Say No to Being a Bridesmaid
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