How to Become a Gold Digger

Video Transcript

"Hi, I'm Donna Barnes. I'm a life and relationship coach and the owner of NY Dating Coach in New York City. In this clip we'll talk about how to become a gold digger. So, I do want to caution you before I tell you this that, you know, they say the woman that marries for money earns every penny but... And basically that's what you have to do. You need to look the part. If someone's going to want to lavish gifts on you, then they're looking for a good piece of arm candy. So you need to look the part. You need to hit the gym and you need to buy nice clothes. You need to dress appropriately and put yourself in situations where you'll meet wealthy men so... and women too. I mean you can be a guy and want to be a gold digger but you know, it's like the whole cougar thing has become very popular, so whatever it is, you need to take care of yourself really well and look really good. You need to have something to talk about so you're not just a vapid thing. And you never want to talk about money. Don't put it out there. Don't ask them things like, "How much money do you make?" Or, "What kind of car do you drive?" That's all way too obvious. You really want to stroke their ego. You want to make them feel wonderful to be in your company and really happy to be around you."