Playing hard to get requires delaying intimacy in the relationship, maintaining power, being strong and avoiding compromise. Make someone work harder to get to know you with tips from a relationship coach in this free video on dating and relationships.
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Hi, I'm Donna Barnes. I'm a life and dating coach, the owner of NY Dating Coach, here in New York City. In this clip, we'll talk about playing hard to get. Now, the best way to do that is to really just delay bringing intimacy in the relationship. And playing, you know, suggests games, which I'm not a big fan of, so I'm not saying... Don't play a game, but really maintain your power. Be strong about who you are, don't compromise anything, don't do things that you don't want to do, and really just maintain your power and let them see that. And make them work a little bit harder for it, and it gets the same effect as playing hard to get. The more you delay bringing real intimacy into a relationship, the more they get to know who you are first. And really, it builds suspense and it makes them much more interested when they had to work a little bit harder to get it. So really, make sure you delay that and, you know, be a little mysterious. Don't lay it all out there for them right away. This is Donna Barnes from New York City.