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Summary: In order to keep a guy interested, it's important to find yourself to be an interesting person. Avoid trying to keep the interest of somebody whose interests are fundamentally different with help from a psychologist in this free video on relationship advice.
Reka Morvay is a Hungarian-American who received her B.A. and M.A. in psychology from UC Berkeley and Cornell University, respectively. Her area of specialization was the biological...read more
"Hi, my name is Reka Morvay. I'm a psychologist, and I'm going to talk to you today about how to keep a guy interested. If you're worried that the person that you're interested in is no longer interested in you, I'm afraid that there's not much that you can really do, because if they don't find you to be an interesting person, then perhaps it's best to let this relationship go. With that said, keeping anybody's interest usually hinges on you, yourself, finding yourself to be an interesting person. Because if you have a full life, and you're satisfied with the way things are going, and you're generally happy, then other people will catch this reflection off of you, that you emanate this, you know, satisfaction and happiness with yourself, and they will also be interested in you. But if you're trying to keep somebody's interest who is fundamentally interested in very different things from what you are interested in, that may not be the best idea. So the way to keep somebody interested is to keep yourself interesting. Go out and do something. Go out with your friends, or find some new hobbies. Find some active part of your life that you can talk about that makes it seem like you have a full and fulfilling life."
eHow Article: How to Keep a Guy Interested