How to Play Hard to Get

Video Transcript

"Hi, I'm Donna Barnes, I'm a life and dating coach and owner of NY Dating Coach here in New York City. In this clip we'll talk about how to play hard to get. Now there's a fine line between being hard to get and playing games, so you never want to play games but you can be hard to get if you're just really confident about who you are and hold strong in your boundaries. Let him know that you find him attractive and that you really look forward to getting to know him better but that you don't feel close enough to him yet that you really, you want to wait. So you're not playing games, you're taking care of yourself and men love women who love themselves. So the best way to keep him really on his toes and really wanting and really chasing you is to not give in to him too soon. So again, don't play games. Be really open about the fact that you really are attracted to him because if he feels like you're not attracted to him he's going to give up and be frustrated and go away. So let him know you really want to but make him wait. This is Donna Barnes from New York City."