How to Get a Guy's Phone Number

Video Transcript

"Hi am Donna Barnes I am a life and dating coach and owner of NY Dating coach here in New York City. In this clip we will talk about how to get a guy's phone number. Now I have to tell you first off that I think it should be the other way around I think he should be trying to get your phone number you know let the man be the man let him drive the energy. But having said that, perhaps you are already in a relationship then you should have his phone number so in that case you should ask for it and if he is not willing to give it to you then there is probably some underlying reason why not. But ok, let's say you are out at a bar and you see a guy that you find appealing and you would like to get his phone number then, acknowledge that you are taking the male lead really in this relationship but walk up to him start a conversation engage with him and maybe just say with your biggest smile as politely as you can, "Hey could have your phone number maybe we could go out sometime." And make it clear that that is your intention that you would like to go out and do something and if he says no then forget him, do not worry about it he is not the right guy for you anyway. This is Donna Barnes from New York City."