How to Keep a Man Guessing

Video Transcript

"Hi I'm Donna Barnes. I'm a life and dating coach, and owner of NY Dating Coach here in New York City. In this clip we'll talk about how to keep a man guessing. And, hopefully that means in a good way. If he just can't figure you out, that's not necessarily good. But, you know, you don't need to be an open book. Less is more. And, secretive is sometimes sexy, if it's in a healthy way. You know, don't hide big things that he should know about that's being withholding. But, yeah, you don't have to, everything that's running through your mind, you don't need to tell to him. Less is more. So, leave him wanting more, and desirous. And then, you know, be spontaneous. And do things at the spur of the moment. Things that you know he'd enjoy and he'll get a kick out of that. And he'll look forward to your spontaneity, and he'll always be wondering, geez, what is she going to do next? In a positive way. Don't be crazy and erratic. That's not, that's not a good way to keep him guessing. That's a, you know, walking on eggshells kind of thing. You want to avoid that if you can. This is Donna Barnes, from New York City."