How to Win Back Love

Video Transcript

"Hi I'm Donna Barnes. I'm a life and dating coach, and owner of NY Dating Coach here in New York City. In this clip we'll talk about how to win back love. And, that can be a really hard thing to do, if the person isn't interested in doing that. If he's, or he or she, is completely shut off from you, and they've drawn a hard boundary that they do not want to hear from you, then unfortunately you need to respect that. But, if they are still seem open to you at all, then you need to take responsibility for anything that you did to contribute to the relationship going wrong, and apologize. Saying I'm sorry goes a really long way, instead of being defensive. If there's things that you see that need to change about the relationship, than make an offer. Say, I acknowledge that I was wrong at this, and I'd like to make, have an opportunity to do it better. And, really present a proposal essentially, of how the relationship can be different if you go back. You can't just expect to go back to what it was, and expect them to want to do that. That won't work. This is Donna Barnes, from New York City."