How to Attract Girls or Guys

Video Transcript

"The moth is attracted to the flame, but how do you attract girls or guys, the opposite sex? This is Doctor Paul, author of "Boomer Girls, A Boomer Woman's Guide To Men And Dating", and host of "Ask Doctor Paul". Okay, there's something that we have that the other animals do not have. And yes, we're animals. Unfortunately we act it sometimes. So the first step in this direction is be civilized. The best way is to use eye contact. Have you ever seen a dog smile? Sure you have. Ever notice that dog, when that dog smiles, that dog has eye contact with you? Of course it has. That dog knows how to get your attention. And you know what? You do too. You have to have the courage to do it, whether you're a man or a woman. You smile, you look at them and then what? Then you, because you're trying to gain interest, look away. It's a take away. You smile, look right in the eyes, and then you look elsewhere. And all of a sudden, you come back. It's body language. It's a psychological message to that person that you're interested. What else can you do? You may move your body in that direction and look elsewhere, because that person knows you're going to come back and look at them again. Then the next step is to move in closer to that person and simply say, "Hi, my name is" whatever it may be. "Hi, my name is Doctor Paul. How are you? It's a pleasure meeting you." And find out what that person's name is, and go from there. It's that simple because you have a technique that other mammals don't have. Except maybe that dog, and perhaps the cat. But the dog can smile and use eye contact. You can too, and it's highly effective. Have a good experience with that. This is Doctor Paul. May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow."