How to Get a Guy to Notice You

Video Transcript

"They look but they don't see. How to get a guy to notice you. This is Dr. Paul, author of "Boomer Girls, a Boomer Woman's Guide to Men and Dating" and host of "Ask Dr. Paul". If you think that the short skirt is going to make guys notice you, you are absolutely right. Now ask yourself this question, is that the kind of guy you want to notice you? What does that say? It says I'm flirtatious and you can't take me seriously, I'm just for fun and games. Now do you think that you are not going to be noticed, of course you are. Do you want to be noticed in that way? Of course not. So now the bottom line becomes how do I get someone to notice me in a way in which I want to be noticed. That's the real question. That becomes more intriguing and more interesting in that you are now going to have a a smile. The best thing that a woman can wear is a smile and please do yourself this favor don't get into fads, wear something timely but not something of a fad nature. Nobody is impressed with showing your tummy and please do yourself a favor forget about the belly button jewelry. A lot of guys are turned off by that. Don't image every man as being the same. So if you want to attract men do it in a way that will be really of interest to them. You look and you smile and you look away. It is a game of mind. It is not really a game per say but it is a profiling and projecting that body language that other people respond to. You know animals do this and we do it too. We do it subconsciously so that is the key to having success. This is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow."