How to Ask Out a Girl

Video Transcript

"Faint heart never won fair lady. How to ask out a girl. This is Doctor Paul, author of Boomer Girls, a Boomer Woman's Guide to Men and Dating, and host of Ask Doctor Paul. All right. Here's how you do it. Act as if, and please be this way, as if you have the courage to do it. All right? Our body language represents ninety percent of what we say. If you walk up, and you, "Can I have a date?", that's not going to work. Would you like somebody to approach you like that? You're a man, project that. You go to that person and say, "You've been very interesting. You know, there are things...", and you look in her eyes, okay? "There are things that I've seen you do that I think are amazing, and I'd like to see you for lunch tomorrow. See you after work for coffee." Not for a drink, not for dinner, don't go there. Make it light up front, but be direct. Don't try to be cute. You can have some humor, you can have a smile, but be direct. You know where you want to go, and this is the person you want to go there with. Okay? "I want to take you to XYZ Restaurant after work, we'll get a bite to eat, and we'll chat." Coffee only. So she knows that she's not threatened. That you haven't been "scoping her out". Okay? Keep those ideas in mind, and I think it'll work out for ya. This is Doctor Paul. May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow."