How to Tell if a Guy Is Into You

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"A guy gets into his car and he knows where he is but how can you tell if a guy is into you? This is Doctor Paul, author of "Boomer Girls, a womens guide to men and dating" and host of "Ask Doctor Paul". So, we've asked Doctor Paul how can you tell if a guy is into you, now that's something that every woman needs to find out because you don't want to waist your time. I know this sounds really like a clich? but you need to ask him but you don't ask him that directly, you ask him in an indirect way. One of the indirect ways you can say that to him is "what do you think about a girl", and then you kind of describe yourself and see how he responds. "How would you feel about a girl that way"? you know men use the term think women use the term feel but kind of ask him how he feels about a girl that does the following. That's an open-ended question, he has to respond in more than yes or no and even more than "uh-uh", so now he's going to think and he's going to think "wow, I think I know somebody like that", well that person that you described, happened to be you but he has to put that together yet. This is not a trick question, we're not playing metal chess here, we're getting him to that point where you are going to know if he's into you. So, if you describe this person that you're asking him about, obviously, someone neither of you knows, than you'll know he's responding to your act, your personality, yourself. This is Doctor Paul, may your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow."