Take Control of Your Relationship

"Hi, I'm Dr. Kane with Expert Village and also the author of the book How to Become a Professional Bachelor. We're talking about protecting your assets in a breakup, which inevitably will occur unless you marry the woman. Well, one of the most important things a professional bachelor must learn is how to control his or her emotions. Let me tell you, this is not an easy chapter. If you have grown up loving, sensing beauty, and just having verve for life, you essentially are an emotional person. However, when it comes to dating and becoming a professional bachelor, you need to be callous, cool, collected, calm, and professional. That means your emotions cannot take the best of you. So when you decide to break up with someone, you do it in style, you do it quickly, but you emotionally need to be cold and to the point. You're actually doing a service for your mate, because if you show any signs of weakness, they will pounce on you and try to re-date you or whatever it may be. So again, controlling your emotions is one of the key factors in distinguishing a professional bachelor from a sloppy bachelor."