Protecting Your Assets in a Break Up

"Hi, I'm Dr. Kane with Expert Village and author of How to Become a Professional Bachelor. You know, dating many women is not a problem; the problem is protecting your assets when you decide to break up. So when you decide to break up with a woman, you need not to do this immediately. You need to preplan. For an example, if you know the woman is extremely, extremely emotional and extremely, extremely codependent, then the breakup may be tough, and she may try to steal some of your objects that I alluded to earlier. So what you need to do is very simple. You need to make it seem like everything is going well and start protecting your assets. In other words, go to her place, make sure you retrieve all your clothing, all your personal belonging, make it like everything is going well. When you've retrieved everything, and you've got everything you want, then you drop the bomb on her and you say listen, time is up, I'm not interested, I'm moving on. You want to make this quick and easy and you don't want this to drag on because a long breakup usually means a painful one both for you and her. Therefore, in a breakup the most humane thing to do is to do it quick and fast. You don't want to have any emotional ties that linger on. Women will appreciate, you'll appreciate it, and it's the most humane thing to do like I said before. So the key thing is when you do break up, make sure you break up in style and don't let them know what's coming. This way you keep all your assets in case you kept something at their house or something like that. Remove all materials, remove everything you can and then you break up. Don't be behind the ball, chasing them after the breakup and you'll be just fine."