Signs That He's a Player: Cell Phone Etiquette

Romance, some say, may not be an old concept in Western civilization. Our films are wont to add tumultuous love interests to ancient heroes like Beowulf, Achilles, Alexander, or Caesar, but many cultural theorists, textual experts, and sociologists have argued again and again that sexuality, which is the foundation for modern day romance, is a rather new creation of society, dating back merely a couple hundred years. According to many, Romantic love, or the affection two souls generate when they find kindred spirits in one another, began in the French stories of knights and chivalry. More traditional research, however, claims to find evidence of romance and intimate love in all cultures throughout history. Truly, love is a strange and enigmatic thing.

In this free video series, radio personality and relationship expert Miss Kitty shows you how to tell if a guy is a player or a gentleman. You will learn to check his cell phone, keep an eye on his spending, and ascertain what his motives may be. If you are in the bar, remember Miss Kitty's tips: if he buys a bottle, flashes his car keys, or talks to his girlfriend while hitting on you, he's a player.

"We are going to do a little thing today about how you can tell if a guy is a player or if he is genuine. Now the player or genuine guy that we are going to be using today is the one and only Brian Barnes. He is going to be the player or the genuine guy. You decide ladies or gentlemen um hum. So right now we are going to learn how to tell if he's a player or if he is a true gentleman. Brian (on the phone): Yeah - no, no, no yeah I'll be home in a little bit baby. Baby look, relax. I just got off of work and I'm just having a cocktail, I just got off of work and I am having a cocktail. Alright, alright. (puts down phone and turns to the lady at the bar) do you have, let me have your number, maybe I can call you sometime or something like that. This is the number one thing that you can tell if a guy is a player. If he is actually on his cell phone with his girlfriend or significant other and actually stops talking with his girlfriend and asks you for your number. This has actually happened to me before. That's a player. It's actually a bad man, bad man! (Repeats previous scene with man talking on the phone)"