Sexy Moms Take Responsibility in Life

Video Transcript

"Hi! I'm Alana Pratt, your sexy mom expert, and now we're going to talk about taking full responsibility for your life. Have you ever noticed that when you're feeling really envious and jealous of others it's generally because your life isn't working. But if you've got a great life you don't look with jealousy and envy to others. You're like way to go, celebration, way to go, rock on. Here's what I want you to notice. Let's say you're in a restaurant with your husband and a beautiful woman walks by and you totally see his eyes go. What is that you feel? Do you feel secure? Do you want to get out your claws against her? Do you totally insecure about who you are not enough? The whole dinner is ruined, you're into fights, he has no idea what's gone wrong with you, but you really, really hurt inside but it comes out as anger. Now here's the thing, when I'm not feeling good about who I am, I don't feel enough, I don't feel love and cherished for exactly who I am, when those beautiful walk by I just want to get the dagger out. However, if I've taken time to be good to me, to feel myself up, to love myself, to be doing what I'm supposed to be doing in the world, so that if died today, although I would be really upset about that, I could actually say I've done my best. I've showed up fully, I've given love fully if this is the end of it. I want you to look. Fill yourself up however you need to do that. Take full responsibility for your own happiness. No one's out there to make you happy. It's our jobs to make ourselves happy, so do what it is that makes you happy and see if and when that ever happens when a beautiful woman walks by if you can look to her with gratitude. Yes, women are amazing. We are art. Sexy women everywhere, watch us shine. Watch us light up this world rather than be envious towards her. See if that little shift about taking total responsibility for your life can help you see other women not as competition but as sisters."