If you go to the professional beauty supply store, they're going to have a color ring, what you want to do is ask to borrow that. Get yourself a mirror and start holding colors up to see what color looks good against your skin tone; obviously not a good match. You can take several colors in the color segment, blonds, and see if those blonds are what's good for your skin. You definitely know that that's not what you want to be. Go to the next level, maybe some golden blonds, if you want to be any golden blond colors. Does that mix with your natural color; probably not. Keep looking because you're going to find a group of colors that are going to work for you and once you get into the right group of colors, if you're noticing I went blond, golden blond, now I'm getting into some warmer, maybe some red tones, see, these are more of the tones that match her skin, so you can obviously tell that that's, some of those tones are matching her skin. Watch when I get into some of the dark browns. Some of them might work, she's working more toward the warm tones if you want to go darker, it's got to be a warm brown; but, if you go to the beauty supply store, they all have color swatches that you can borrow, it might not look exactly like this, but they're in some kind of order where your blonds, your golden blonds, then you get to your warms, your reds, your browns and your blacks, so that's going to help you decide and get into the family of color that you're looking for. So, go for some color swatches and pick the right color that's right for your skin tone. You can always tell by looking in the mirror, it immediately jumps out to you. So that's a good way to decipher what color to start with.