How to Get Your Ex Back Into Your Arms

Have you and your significant other recently separated? Have you spent nights trying to figure out what to say to get your ex to even acknowledge that you still exist? Believe it or not there ARE "magic" words that you can use to get your ex to talk to you again. Its a positive psychology that you will be creating in your ex's mind and he/she WILL want to return your call, IM, Text. Just so that they CAN talk to you again. Sounds hard to believe that these words actually exist. But these words will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call. Cool huh?... I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions I hear from so many of my friends, customers, and loved ones who have been dumped and just wanted to get their ex to at the least talk to them. Just like you they were trying to put their relationship back together. So I am going to answer..."How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Things You’ll Need:

• Patience
• Know how to follow simple steps

1. First off if you know what not to say and what messages do NOT work then you will save yourself a lot of headaches, heartaches, and psychological pain ships. There are typically 2 types of ways people try to get ex's to talk with them and both of these are NOT the correct way. The Pleaders - such as "_______, please, please call me this is the third time I have called you and I HAVE to talk to you." The Emergencies - like this one "_______, this is an emergency please call me as soon as you get this."
2. Now I hope you can see what is wrong with both of these. If not here is a hint: They both sound desperate and like you have no other resort, you are down on your knees and you have no pride in yourself and no self-esteem. Now I'm sure YOU have self-esteem, YOU have pride in yourself, but this is how you are portraying yourself to your ex by creating a sense of emergency or being a pleader.
3. What REALLY will get your ex to call, text, or IM you back is if you psychologically boost THEM up. To do this you need to create a sense of curiosity and self-interest. These are the two of the most powerful forces in the human mind. But the BIGGEST secret of all is COMBINING them.
4. In a friendly tone if you are calling him/her or if you are texting or IMing him/her DO NOT use all upper case letters. Use a combination of upper and lower letters. The next conversation WILL work nearly EVERY time. Say or Write something similar to the following: "Hi _____. It's ______. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person." The above creates curiosity and interest "What is it that I did?", "What is it that he/she appreciates?" Your ex won't be able to resist! And the message leaves your ex feeling good, he/she won't be dreading the call back to you.
5. Now You have those MAGIC words BUT before picking up that phone you need to at the very least know what it is that he/she did that you appreciate. It can even be something small but it needs to be plausible.
6. The most important thing you NEED BEFORE you actually ask him/her to return your call is a plan of WHAT you do before, during and after your ex returning your call. Please make sure it is a reasonable plan, because you CAN do more harm to yourself and your relationship if you do not handle the ENTIRE situation correctly. Example: If your ex returns your call and then you start crying on him/her saying how much you miss them, asking them to come back, or begging/pleading to be with him/her again; THAT will make your ex just want to ignore you completely. So, please create a plan BEFORE you call and ask your ex to call you back. There is an excellent and VERY useful plan that you can look at in Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call. You can find the link to this in my resources.

Tips & Warnings

• Please create a plan first, I only like to see people get back into a HEALTHY relationship, NOT completely lose a friendship.
• DO NOT use this if you just recently separated from an abusive relationship. There are PLENTY of wonderful people out there for you to meet.
• If you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy ... you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.