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Step 1
Learn to love yourself! You can’t attract anyone to you if you are constantly finding fault with yourself. Look in the mirror and learn to LOVE what you see staring back at you.
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Step 2
Understand the elements that attract people to you; first impressions, similar likes, great conversation, body language, eye contact, complimentary remarks, etc.
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Step 3
Exude lots of confidence and high self-esteem! But don’t cross the line into coming across as cocky or arrogant.
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Step 4
Don’t spill your guts about your emotional needs and what you’re looking for in a mate on your first date. Be pleasant, engaging, and complementary to the other person.
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Step 5
Find something you have in common and talk about it as much as possible; and when appropriate, engage in the activity together.
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Step 6
Have a life! Don’t sit and wait around for your mate to call. If he/she hasn’t called as quickly as you’d like, it’s ok. When you do speak to the person, be upbeat and happy. Don’t question why they are just now calling.
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Step 7
Do NOT become intimate too soon! This is probably the biggest killer of all. It is critical to establish a friendship first before moving to the intimacy level. Your mate will appreciate and respect you more.
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Step 8
Pay attention to the red flags if you see them. By ignoring the red flags, you enter into a relationship with someone who is emotional unavailable and this sets you up for failure and hurt. These negative emotions will be carried into your next attempt at finding a relationship, and it will come across in your attitude.
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Step 9
Learn how to be a great communicator, FIND HUMOR and get your mate to laugh a lot! Laughter is magical.
Comments
kijawanchoti said
on 11/17/2008 That good.Thank you for shsring .
Lindah said
on 8/30/2008 Nice article. Thanks for sharing with for us "single" girls. LOL
nikitagharat said
on 7/26/2008 good tops, really , good
mshurt said
on 6/11/2008 Good advice properly stated.
missnice104 said
on 6/5/2008 Terrific article!!! Simply terrific! I loved step one! We must learn to love ourselves. That is soooo important! I loved step 3 two!! Confidence is sooooooo important!!!!! Steps 7 and 8 are crucial, so very crucial!!!! Outstanding Ms. Hill!!! Love Ya!!!!