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Step 1
STOP PRESSURING HER, yourself, each other!
The more a woman "tries" to have an orgasm, the further she is going to get from it. In fact, even women who are very orgasmic and have no trouble achieving orgasm through various forms of stimulation will find it very difficult to have an orgasm if they feel pressured to perform.
Orgasms are not "achieved" they are "surrendered into". Pressure will have the opposite of the desired effect.
Sound familiar? Men don't sexually perform very well under pressure either.
So stop making it the big elephant in the corner. Stop asking, "did you come?", "Are you close?", "Am I doing it right?"
The best way to start eliminating the pressure is to stop being "goal oriented" about sex. Enjoy the PROCESS of making love. Just take pleasure in touching... that's an end in itself. No need to always drive towards orgasm.
This one step can make an instant change in your entire perception of making love... and, yes, if you manage to truly eliminate the goal and pressure, you might find your first orgasm sneaks up and surprises you in very short order. -
Step 2
Forget reading up on new techniques for how to touch her ****oris or g-spot.
She's tried them, other men have tried them, and they haven't worked.
With every women's magazine screaming about "how to have the 'big O'" on every cover, you better believe that there is nothing PHYSICAL that she has not tried.
You need to know the basic anatomy and the basic ideas for giving a woman an orgasm... after that, the fancy tricks are just... fancy tricks. They are no better or worse.
For a full understanding of the basics of giving a woman an orgasm in a step-by-step fashion please refer to www.revolutionarysex.com -
Step 3
Build sexual trust so that she can eventually surrender to the orgasm by focusing on your connection rather than on what is going on with her body. This works. It has worked for virtually every couple that I have counseled in the past, and it will work for you.
Start with the tip in the video... and if you feel you want more help, check out my free newsletter at http://www.revolutionarysex.com
Comments
sassygirl7 said
on 11/17/2009 He's not about porn, he's about intimacy - and his tips are great!
Who can't benefit from his first tip! The Sentia pills, may work for one woman, but they don't work for everyone, and why is everyone alwasys trying to take a pill instead of doing the actual action steps...is creating more safety and intimacy such terrible work??
Chickens if you can't do it!
Nuich said
on 1/11/2009 If your woman can't reach an orgasm advise her Sentia pills. My wife started feeling orgasms after taking these pills.
Emyluvsjayjay said
on 8/23/2008 I have had this experience. But my orgaisms are all differnet. But always better when I relax. and have fun with it.