How to Give A Woman An Orgasm (Who Has Never Had An Orgasm Before)

Introduction

If you are in a sexual relationship with a woman who has trouble or who has never had an orgasm, you probably both find it frustrating. In our culture, if a woman can't have an orgasm, she feels "broken". And if a man can't give a woman an orgasm, then he is inadequate. And many relationships have failed under the pressure of this common problem... Giving a woman her first orgasm is the subject of hundreds of women's magazine articles, and it's just shocking to me that none of them seem to give much in the way of accurate advice or techniques for a woman who has trouble achieving orgasm. If you are a man, a woman, or a couple who are serious about learning how to give a woman an orgasm, please watch this video.

By: Alex Allman

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Difficulty: Moderate

Step1

STOP PRESSURING HER, yourself, each other!

The more a woman "tries" to have an orgasm, the further she is going to get from it. In fact, even women who are very orgasmic and have no trouble achieving orgasm through various forms of stimulation will find it very difficult to have an orgasm if they feel pressured to perform.

Orgasms are not "achieved" they are "surrendered into". Pressure will have the opposite of the desired effect.

Sound familiar? Men don't sexually perform very well under pressure either.

So stop making it the big elephant in the corner. Stop asking, "did you come?", "Are you close?", "Am I doing it right?"

The best way to start eliminating the pressure is to stop being "goal oriented" about sex. Enjoy the PROCESS of making love. Just take pleasure in touching... that's an end in itself. No need to always drive towards orgasm.

This one step can make an instant change in your entire perception of making love... and, yes, if you manage to truly eliminate the goal and pressure, you might find your first orgasm sneaks up and surprises you in very short order.

Step2

Forget reading up on new techniques for how to touch her ****oris or g-spot.

She's tried them, other men have tried them, and they haven't worked.

With every women's magazine screaming about "how to have the 'big O'" on every cover, you better believe that there is nothing PHYSICAL that she has not tried.

You need to know the basic anatomy and the basic ideas for giving a woman an orgasm... after that, the fancy tricks are just... fancy tricks. They are no better or worse.

For a full understanding of the basics of giving a woman an orgasm in a step-by-step fashion please refer to www.revolutionarysex.com

Step3

Build sexual trust so that she can eventually surrender to the orgasm by focusing on your connection rather than on what is going on with her body. This works. It has worked for virtually every couple that I have counseled in the past, and it will work for you.

Start with the tip in the video... and if you feel you want more help, check out my free newsletter at http://www.revolutionarysex.com