How to Respect a Woman's Privacy at Grocery Store

Video Transcript

"Hi everyone, my name is Allen, co-founder of Askromeo.com, and on behalf of Expert Village I’m here to show you how to meet a woman at a supermarket. How to, when you are in a grocery store, make it look like you are not meeting somebody in a grocery store. So this may sound a little counter intuitive, but you want to make sure that you are responsible for the way that she looks to herself and the other people around her. You want to respect her privacy because she has friends and relatives that may be shopping in this exact same store and it may get back to them, so you want to, and she has to come in here in the future so you want to make sure that you are responsible for how she appears to the other people. What you don’t want to do is make her look back so there are a couple of ways that you can do that. The first is by the placement of your body, so what I don’t want to do is be leaning up in a typical pick-up pose, right, chatting her up, talking like that. What I do want to do is I want to talk to her like we’re old friends, so I can be standing here and we can be talking like this, me talking over my shoulder or I can stand like this and I can talk to her over my shoulder like that, all right. Either way it’s going to give the appearance that we are old friends so anybody who comes up, it just looks like we are talking in the middle of the grocery store and to her it actually feels that way and mentally it will feel to her like we’ve known each other a lot longer than we have. You also want to be careful about what you are talking about, so you don’t want to start off right off the bat with “where do you live”, she might not be comfortable giving that information to you, especially if it’s her neighborhood grocery store, so you want to get that information causally over time a little bit later on and be responsible for the way that she looks. With the physical contact you want to make sure that the stuff that you are doing is innocent, you don’t want to be grabbing breasts in public, you don’t want to be grabbing behinds in public, you don’t want to be touching the insides of her thighs, you want to make sure that she still looks classy when you’re talking to her and that you look classy so that when she tells the story later, you’re responsible and she says, “it felt great, it was the type of thing that I wanted to happen my entire life”, that is how to make it look like that you are not picking up somebody in a grocery store."