How Can Trying to Make Your Ex-Girlfriend Jealous Backfire on You?

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Trying to make your ex-girlfriend jealous is never a good idea - that is one stone that is best left unturned. Find out about all the ways making your ex-girlfriend jealous can backfire on you with help from a longtime practicing therapist in this free video clip.

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Hi, I'm David Simonsen with I'm Relationship Expert in the Seattle area. And was I, when I was in high school, I was in love with this young woman and she broke up with me. And I thought, she needs to be with me; what is wrong with her, doesn't she know who I am? And so, one night I got this crazy idea that I was going to go plead with her to you know, come back to me. So, I went to her house, lights were off, went up to the window, knock on the window; the next thing I saw was her father's face. Needless to say, we didn't get back together and I made a quick exit. Now, if you breakup with someone, there's probably a good reason why that breakup took place. So, you need to ask yourself, "Why do I want to make this person jealous?" Do, you want to make him jealous because they really need to be with you. Do you want to make him jealous because it's like make, going to make you feel better? And usually that's the reason 'cause it's just like, "Oh, it's going to make me feel better." I'll tell you what's going to happen if you continue to try to make someone jealous. There's going to be police involvement and you're probably going to get arrested for stalking because the more you try to make someone jealous, the more contact you have with them. And you don't want to have a lot of contact with someone that you had a bad breakup with because they will call the police, they will have a father that gets involve that will probably beat you down; they'll have an ex-boy, they'll have another boyfriend coming to the relationship that's going to beat you down and you don't want that because you have a pretty face. You don't want a broken noses; you don't want to have a police report. So, don't make someone jealous just because you feel, it will make you feel better. I'm David Simonsen with Help 4 Life.


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