Comments on: How to Know the Rules of Dating for Women

on 7/8/2007 Never ever call your mate halfway through, unless you really need to get out of there fast. If you're just bored, stick it out with gritted teeth and make a believable excuse to go home as soon as it's over.

on 7/8/2007 Never ever call your mate halfway through, unless you really need to get out of there fast. If you're just bored, stick it out with gritted teeth and make a believable excuse to go home as soon as it's over.

on 7/5/2007 Try not to talk about your ex boyfriends. That's a big turn off, not unless you have established that you and your date are close close. Close enough to see each other on a regular basis. Be yourself and don't be afraid to talk about what inspires you. Women with ideas and a passion drive me crazy!

on 2/12/2007 Most men like to be the leaders. On the first date, let him choose the restaurant, the theater or anywhere else you may go. This way he is going to feel comfortable, but on the other hand, you can discover what kind of interests he has. Let him show you and then take the decision if you want to keep him or not.

on 7/21/2006 It is much better to be yourself and probably make some mistakes than act like you are someone else. If there is someone that is going to be in a relationship with this man it is going to be you. Not your friend. So, it is better if you see clearly if you truly match. The mistakes you make show your true self. If he cannot stand them then there is no future in this relationship.

on 6/30/2006 Make the guy work to be with you, like picking you up, paying for the date, and planning it ahead of time. They will not value what they don't work for.

on 2/23/2006 If a guy dumps you, don't beg him to take you back. Do you really want a relationship built on pity? Just go your way and cultivate your own life. Someone better will come along, someone who has been looking for you all his life!

on 11/22/2005 Never brag to a women or men about what all the money and possessions you have. It can be a major turn off, and you will attract gold diggers.

on 11/22/2005 Even if it's your first date, don't be afraid to kiss her goodnight. If the moment is right, do it. The worst that could happen is they aren't into it. Better you know now than torture yourself over waiting for another date. But as for sex? Wait a bit. A one night stand doesn't generally turn into a relationship.

on 11/22/2005 Let her know you'' like her for who she is ,give a surpris present once in a while '' Women pisces like museums and the outdoors ,so take advantage of the long summer nights.

on 11/22/2005 Don't sleep with him on the first date! I know you want to, and he definitely does, but all that says to him is that you are not girlfriend material. It may be total nonsense, but you have to play the hand you're dealt.

on 11/22/2005 If there are any guys reading this, don't tell her you love her when you don't. Don't be a punk - they like rough men, but not too rough. Kiss her when she doesn't see it coming.

on 11/22/2005 My boyfriend thinks I'm a wonderful person because I stuck with him through thick and thin. I wasn't bothered when he didn't have a job. I kept him going by assuring him he will be okay and find something he'll like and I'll help him along the way. My friends thought I was stupid for being with someone that was jobless...but I was patient. He got a job later and always asks me why I bothered to stick around when times got tough. I told him, "because i love you." He admires my understanding and that's what keeps us so in love with eachother. Simplicity is key!

on 11/22/2005 Though hopefully most times it will be clear at the end of a first date whether there is interest on a woman's part in meeting again, sometimes it is not . The situation varies, but try to convey some finality if you're not interested (e.g. offer your hand for a handshake, instead of kissing him on the cheek or hugging; say "it was nice meeting you" instead of "let's be in touch;" and don't say you had a "really nice time" or "enjoyed talking" unless you really did). When a woman kindly conveys a lack of interest, it helps both people in that the man won't need to make a call that he thinks is wanted, when it isn't, and the woman won't need to field such an uncomfortable call, or "shake" the guy later.

on 11/22/2005 This is very important. Don't be shallow. You'll close yourself to great guys. So the guy doesn't have a car. Big deal! Don't break a date with him on account of that. Ride a bus/train to wherever you're going. The guy can keep his arm around you, instead of the steering wheel. The same goes for other things too.
Tip: Sit in the front of the bus, or in the first train car. It's safer there.