Comments on: How to Prepare to Be a Houseguest

on 8/25/2007 you're right Tameka, probably one of the biggest things some people don't know is WHEN to call it a day; I can always see it in someone's eyes and general behavior when they want to be left alone already.

Analyze your hosts and appreciate them!

on 11/22/2005 Wouldn't it be nice if everyone were like my mom, who rinses out the sink and swishes the toilet brush around the bowl before she leaves our house?

on 11/22/2005 When visiting with my immediate family, I make sure to go grocery shopping for myself either before I arrive (bring food there) or soon after arriving. I find that I often miss meals when they don't have something I would like to eat, and I get thrown off, leaving my stomach upset. Mostly I am talking about breakfast and lunch and snack items (and milk, which I love). Dinner you can be pretty sure will be taken care of in any household. I also find this takes stress off of sisters-in-law who have new children. They have no sense of time, and it's just easier to take care of your own needs. (I buy cottage cheese, snack bars, cereal, coldcuts and milk, especially with my preferred percentage and in case family members have their own lactose free milk, or only use their little milk for coffee). Be prepared to share, but it's nice to keep one's self healthy and energized while being a guest. I should mention, my one brother has a house FULLY stocked with food and they make real meals for every meal, so I don't need to do that while staying with him.

on 11/22/2005 Always pick up after yourself, ie, towels should be hanged to dry after the shower, clean toothpaste from sink, etc.

on 11/22/2005 Offer to help with meal preparation and clean up.

on 11/22/2005 Never overstay your welcome. Learn to leave, and don't ask to stay extra days.